Downsizing sounds like a math problem. Sell the big house, buy the smaller one, keep the difference. It is almost never that, and the people who treat it that way are the ones who call me eighteen months later wanting to move again.

I have handled a lot of these. Here is what separates the ones that work from the ones that do not.

The square footage is not what you are giving up

Nobody misses the extra bedroom. What people miss is storage, and specifically the kind of storage that was invisible to them in the old house. The garage that held the Christmas decorations and the camping gear and the extra fridge. The basement. The closet under the stairs that had been absorbing overflow for twenty years.

Move into a home with a two car garage after living with a three car and a basement, and you will discover exactly how much you own within about four days. This is the number one source of downsizing regret I see, and it is entirely predictable in advance.

So before you shop, do the honest inventory. Not the aspirational one where you get rid of everything. The real one, where you admit you are keeping the tools and the holiday bins and the kayaks. Then shop for a house that fits that, not for the smallest house that technically has enough bedrooms.

Single level is worth paying for

If part of the reason you are downsizing is that you would rather not do stairs in fifteen years, buy the single level now. Do not buy the two story with a main floor primary and tell yourself the upstairs is for guests. It works until it does not, and by then moving again is a much bigger project than it is today.

Single level homes on a good lot are in steady demand here for exactly this reason, which means you pay for them and it also means they hold their value. That is a fair trade.

Think about the second guest room honestly

This is where I push back on clients most. Everyone says they need the extra rooms for when the kids and grandkids visit. Sometimes that is true and the room earns its keep. Often it is a room that gets used nine nights a year and costs you money and cleaning every single day.

There is a middle path a lot of people here take, which is buying a home with a casita or a separate suite. You get real space for visitors without giving the whole floor plan over to guests, and in some cases that space can do double duty as an office or a place for a parent later on.

Where downsizing buyers usually land

A lot of my downsizing clients end up in an active adult community, and for good reason. St. George active adult homes, Hurricane, and Ivins all have options. The floor plans are designed for this stage, the yards are manageable, and the social side is genuinely a factor if you have just moved somewhere you do not know anyone.

Others go to a townhome or condo. Condos and townhomes take the yard off your plate entirely, which some people love and some people hate. If gardening is your thing, do not buy a place with no dirt and expect to be happy.

And some buyers stay in a standard neighborhood and just buy a smaller house on a smaller lot. That is often the right answer for people who are downsizing at 55 rather than 70 and do not want an age restricted community yet.

Run the actual numbers, not the headline ones

A smaller home does not automatically mean lower monthly costs. HOA dues on a low maintenance property can more than absorb the savings on utilities and taxes. Get the real dues figure and what it covers before you fall for the lifestyle pitch.

Also look at what the dues do and do not include, and ask about the reserve situation. A community with dues that look low today and a deferred maintenance problem coming is not a bargain, it is a bill with a delay on it.

The last thing I will say is about sequencing. Selling first and buying second gives you the strongest negotiating position and the most stressful sixty days of your life. Buying first is comfortable and expensive. There is no universally right answer, but there is a right answer for your situation and your tolerance, and it is worth talking through before either house is listed.


If you want to talk any of this through, call or text me at 435-200-5508, or send me a message. I have been selling real estate here for 13 years and about 275 closings in, so I have probably already made whatever mistake you are trying to avoid.

Common Questions

What do people regret most after downsizing?

Losing storage. Buyers focus on bedrooms and square footage and forget the garage, basement, and closets that had been quietly absorbing decades of belongings. Do an honest inventory of what you are actually keeping before you shop.

Should I buy a single level home when downsizing?

If avoiding stairs later is part of your reason for moving, buy single level now rather than a two story with a main floor primary bedroom. Moving again in ten years is a much larger project than buying the right layout today.

Does downsizing always lower monthly costs?

No. HOA dues on a low maintenance home can offset savings on utilities and property taxes. Get the actual dues amount, what it covers, and the community's reserve situation before assuming the smaller home is cheaper to own.